Not the easy way out

[faithrunner]

I see a lot of the same in my H. He has terrible stomach problems, which get worse every weekend when we are all together as a family. I think he is being pressured by OW about all the time he spends with us on those days. Plus, he's gained a lot of weight, already on anxiety meds, but complains of extreme fatigue and disinterest in his usual activities. In a way, it makes me more sympathetic toward him,and enables me to be kinder.