Rings: Took them off as soon as I found out was just thinking about wearing them again. It's really about what you feel is okay for you. No big deal and no condemnation.
My humble opinion on God's plan for all of us, and I say opinion as I respect everyone's opinion who visits. I don't feel it was ever God's Plan for our families to be broken up. The enemy came in like a flood and stole. This I will never accept. Yes God gives man free will and my H had free will to chose to be a poop head! But God is a God of families and marriages and is not happy in any way shape or form about this. Now having said that, and knowing that I am an associate Pastor, I want you guys to know that I have not since day 1 preached at my H or told him that God was mad or judging him, he has a conscience that God can speak with him. I felt that would only push him away further. I never talked church or God with him as he already know. What I feel is God speaks to every person individually and speaks to each person's heart. He knows what we can take and not take and so if you feel God has led you to, for now, to stand for your marriage then so be it. If you feel God has told you it's ok to move forward then so be it. Just follow your heart and lift it up to God. Trust yourself, even if you stand and think you shouldn't be its really no big deal, its just going to help you if for some reason you need to move forward to walk with a clear conscience. God will get you where you need to be. Trust me!
Yes I have gotten to a place of acceptance, but not of the infidelity. I am in acceptance of this is where my life is right now. Acceptance that my marriage may or may not survive this although I have hope. And an acceptance of either way it goes I am going to make it but hopefully that's with H.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
