Thats Just it NoCode at least you know and you are working on it.

H's are not the only clueless ones in many cases. We all have a tendency to fall by the way side because of the lack of communication, and that takes Two

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You have that right.

MY H has always been the type that did whatever and put me at the end of the list for the most part. He didn't totally ignore me but i came after what he wanted to do. I adjusted and did things on my own and with my children.

Now the kids are gone and he is older I think he felt the distance and decided it was my fault. (that we had nothing in common)
Now I am working on what I want for me and what I want in my M he just needs to decide to join me or not.

Sorry for the hijack Tal

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez