At least you can see your H looking at you. Mine is so inwardly focused that it's like I am almost invisible. He is very concerned with his looks lately, alawys asking me if he is handsome, goodlooking etc. Also worried that his hair is falling out. Wow.
I almost forgot. On Friday night, late, one of the builders that H has always done work for came into the bar. He builds large houses. At just about the end of the night he slipped up to me and quitely asked me if H was going thru MLC. I was so stunned. I responded, "classic." He said, well hang in there. He will come back. I did, and he will too. You could have knocked me off my chair. This man is not a close friend, but he obviously has been observing the situation with H, it really made me feel good that he chose to speat to me about it like he did.
For every nasty OW there are 3 really good people out there.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
