That's sweet, Jak, and thanks.

But I freely admit that I have been utterly clueless in my M (especially in the latter stages) like soooo many husbands I see today-- or else I wouldn't be here at all.

It's a fault I hope to keep in check for the rest of my life (which means I now have something that will keep me busy all my waking hours. ) It's a full-time job just to remain conscious of it.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.