Get out more decorations! It will help you feel better, and make the girls happy. Somewhere on this board it says to make your 'outside' look better, then your inside will feel better (meaning..keep up your house, lawn, organize, etc). It will set a great example for your girls.

Yay for NC!

Just remember, don't set yourself up with "...will H call or not...". Just say to yourself that he won't, and go on with your week. Sadly, this legal stuff is your mess. Yes, H should be supportive and feel bad, but he isn't and doesn't. So, you and your L handle it.

GREAT JOB not calling H about a question you can simply ask him later. I *still* do that, think "I should call and tell him about that appt on Friday", but I don't contact anymore. I am not immune to pain, I promise. I still check my phone and sigh when I don't see anything from xH.

Yuck to OW's bday! Hopefully she'll eat some cake with laxatives in it. ;\)

Have a great day!