WAW Won't Communicate At All

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((seaglass)) Sounds like you fired the first C and found one that is a better fit? I am curious about something you said earlier, that your W had been in IC for the last year. Is it possible she suspected something was up (before she actually started snooping) and was getting her own act together?
You don't talk much about the years before you were involved with online communications w/ OW. What were you missing (think Love Languages) that caused you to look outside the M in the first place? What happened to make W suspicious? Did you have large blocks of time you couldn't account for? Is her LL quality time? See where I'm going?
I've been in counseling, both MC and IC for a long time. We went to one MC for 11 years! (Ok, he wasn't all that good and ended up divorcing himself...but that's another story). Several years ago, a C told me that it is not unusual for a WAW to spend up to a year planning her exit strategy. I'd never heard of such an idea. When I walked last year, it was very sudden.
Now I'm home, and planning to walk again. I've decided I'm finally done, this M is beyond hope.
Keep posting. We are here for you, whatever happens in your sitch. Peace.