Back to life, back to reality?

[AliSuddenly]

I agree, thats why the bomb is called the bomb. You have been in a limbo for 3 months, as I was august - October, not knowing what was going on, he said he wanted space, then he wasnt sure if we had a future together, then that he wanted a separation to think about it... and finally he ended it and said just as many mean things. It was awful. I ended up on the floor holding onto his ankles howling, really bad. So i understand how incomprehensible it was. My ex also INSISTED that there was noone else, mainly I think becuase he couldnt or didnt want to believe that this was why he was ending it, but that the issues were between us and then he had met someone else, which I think is true in most cases.

Anyway, after taht, and 3 months of little contact, the contact returned, slowly at first, to the point that we were spending all weekend together, althuogh at the bomb and after, I wouldnt have believed that. For me, I didnt win him back, bexuase the ow won him in the end, but maybe if there isnt one, or even if there is, I still think you dont know how things can change in some months from now, but right now, he clearly needs space.

I am so sorry you are going through this, I remember just how upsetting it was.

Ali xxx