If you are going to plan B, then go to it. She continues to do whatever she pleases without any consequences. Sure, you get on her case with threats, but they have all been empty. It's the boy that cried wolf...she knows that's all it is. I do think you need something more drastic....go completely dark, go to England, or go to Munich. Don't tell her though because I'll bet you $100 that she'd suddenly show interest in you if she was presented the opportunity to return to Europe. She'd use you in a heartbeat. She's become quite the actress and I know you'd buy her "heartfelt" remorse that would last long enough to get her settled with you.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
