I definitely had physical problems during my affairs. Extremely bad back pain, headaches almost constantly, stomach problems, poor concentration, and tired all the time. I know when I was seeing a counselor and talking to her about everything (I was seeing OM at the time), she said that the stress goes somewhere....it was a secret, no one knew about OM, but I did...and the stress on my body showed it. Looking back, I also realize I was severely depressed. Depression brings on physical problems.