We also have made an agreement to have no more big discussions by email, the we need to do them face to face, as it important that we learn to have more face to face talks. It has been easier to have email talks, but we are missing out on everything else that goes with it, you know emotion, body language. So thats also a good thing. But like I said no huge expectations, just let it happen and see where it goes!
Limbo,
I express my feeling easier in writing ( that's why I like Dialoguing) anyway a half way point could be to go ahead and write your e-mail that you wanted to send but instead print it out and read it to your husband. Me I have these thoughts and when the time does come to talk I always get off track and leave stuff out.
Just a suggestion..
You are doing great. AND I give your H allot of credit going to a C. My wife knows she has a problem but will not seek help...
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
