Something strange is happening to me (no I do not have an eye on anybody else) for the first time, I really had no feelings for the person sitting across me.
It's not strange John. It's not strange at all. I think it's a natural progression. It has happened to me. I feel nothing for Kim..no anger, I see no beauty..it's like looking at a a blank sheet of paper..it's just blank.
Hi John, just checking on you. You seem to be doing well with detaching. Second time around things are a tiny bit easier, arent they? Always thinking of you K
Let her deal with finances. You will do your D a favor to help your wife grow up. After all she is also her role model no matter what you do...
Doing well with detaching? I guess so. i don't know if it is second time around related or just time....after a while, one has to come to certain realisations. Last night W called twice...once regarding work and later to ask for a song title (I am pretty good with music) that she wanted to BUY on Itunes (it seems that she can't go an hour without buying something...but I digress). So she is still pretty comfortable calling me...like a good buddy I guess. As you can tell I am not DBing (ie. let it go to the answering machine etc....). i will do that when i am in FLA next week not because I want to DB but because I want to save on long distance charges....and concentrate on my golf game!!!!! So I am progressing naturally into indifference? Well I am not there yet. Mike, I have not gotten to the blank sheet of paper...actually I hope I never get there. Because BLANK is some serious detachment.
yes it is..I guess that is the ultimate detachment.
I've come to the conclusion that the reason for all this (mysitch)IMO was to get Caleigh here. My M was not about love or Kim and I. My M was about Caleigh..that's all.
That is an interesting conclusion Mike. I guess eventually D7 is all I will have left from my last 10 or so years. What a gift though!!! As much as I hate some of my W's actions in the last 1.5 yrs., the other years she was simply great...I have to thank W for the beautiful gift that is my daughter.
Great! Now if the Canadian dollar can stop sliding.....my green fees have increased roughly 15% in the last 2-3 weeks. Ah what the hey!!! It's only money.
well there has to be a reason for us getting together. I seriously doubt if it was to show me once again how chitty divorce can be..and Kim knows it all too well since she was a child of divorce. So I look for the positive in it all..We had lots of fun, did lots of good things together. The sex was awesome..Kim got her dream home, she got the child she so wanted..
I got a second chance at being one hell of a better dad than I was the first time around..I also got a chance to change my sorry asss..I got a great daughter..
