About a week ago when she got another big bill fom her L she called me to vent. In the course of her vent she said it was my fault we were going through the D (and therefore my fault she had this big bill from her L she hired to D me).
I bit my tounge. <<<< tongue (he he)
During divorce version 1.0 in 1998, W had a scumbag lawyer who charged her for calling him to ask what she should say to me about x y or z.
she eventually asked me if we could stop fighting (she did the fighting, my lawyer and I simply held our ground.)
It's funny how they see the actual cost rise when they start 'the fight'.
This was supposed to be easy, right? we just say "Oh sweet-kins, let me give you whatever you want, even though you are putting a dagger into my heart. But I love you so much I'll take one for the team.
Been there, done that. now, during divorce 3.0 (2.0 was more of an emotional crash) The crazy thing is that as long as you DON'T take one for the team, you'll get a lot more respect.
