Another one bites the dust (2)

[Ready2Change]

...it made me really sad

It is perfectly fine to be sad. Feel every emotion and let them out!

I would like to start the talking about putting together the information necessary to have our documents drawn up. I see it as 3 areas that we need to go through:
1. Personal property
2. Parenting arrangements
3. Money arrangements
My impression is the item of most concern to you, and the one with the least discussion between us, is the last. If you like, we can talk about that first. What I am hoping we can do is have a very open and honest talk about goals, hopes, requirements, understandings, timeframes, etc.

First, Do you trust him? If you can't trust him, then I would recommend getting legal advise. Go to lots of L with lists of questions....

but it is the fear of the unknown that makes it so hard.

Do not let fear control you. Face your biggest fears....

It is the anger that he left me

Sorry you are angry. You ave every right to be angry. Reach deep inside you and let go of this anger. Put it toward a positive changes....

...I am fighting CANCER....

*HUGS*

...that maggot leaves him. I know, very negative energy I am putting outintothe universe.

I can feel your pain for what you perceive the OW did. What type of energy do you want to put out in the universe?

Any suggestions on how I should reply? I am not sending anything tonight, I will wait until tomorrow.

Not sure if you have sent a reply, but draft up a reply and let us look it over and offer input....

*HUGS*