Jgrind, put the letter in the box -- too nice! Get surviving an affair and read the letter that they suggest giving to H and a copy to the OW. This is if you decide to go no contact. Plan A/Plan B. T2L is on Plan A right now.
Fireproof should be mandatory for all H's. There was so many couples there and just a few single people. I cried and cried. At the end everyone clapped.
I know now without God in our marriage it had no chance to survive. Have you every been to rejoice ministries.org It is about this couple that the husband left they divorced and the wife never gave up and then they remarried and run this ministry. The husband calls himself the prodigal spouse. It is very interesting. Look it up. That was a truly hopeless case. My oldest D just called. She worries about me.
I met with C tonight also. Had a cry session. He suggested last week I go to Divorce Cares a group that is run here. I told him tonight that I decided not to go. I am not divorced and have not been served. Right now I am standing for my marriage even if I stand alone. We prayed together for God to give me comfort and that H would accept God's help, that is all I could do for today.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
