Dan, My W would tell me about OM also. Your reaction is perfect, and really surprising to her.. And you'll be there when her BS relationship inevitably falls apart, even if just as a friend. Guess who she'll come to then? Hang in there!
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK