I'm proud that you told your H that you would not tolerate his abuse anymore!! I also think you did the right thing by letting him know that if he wants this sale then he is going to have to take care of it. That is one thing that my H did, he wanted to sale the house & he started taking care of a bunch of things. He wanted me to pick out the real estate agent, but that was his game to let me pick someone I wanted. He thought I would go along with things then, but my lawyer put a stop to that. I truely believe that if he would not have rushed things so much we would not be where we are now. My ex SIL told me the OW rushed him while he was still vulnerable.
Sounds like you had a very nice weekend!! I hope you have a wonderful week!