In other places on this board they talk about 'dropping the rope'. You may want to read up on this concept which apparantly is in DR or DB.
Basically it is letting the WAS go, which is the opposite of what you are doing by trying to manipulate a situation to turn out in your favor.
To me, it sounds like an admission of powerlessnes, but I don't think it appears that way to the WAS. To them they feel like you are really taking them seriously and it may take this to wake them up.
As long as H knows you are trying to 'make' him come back, he will continue to behave as a naughty little boy and play in the mud.......
Of course, easier said than done, but at some point (and I think I am at that point) must be done.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09
