Ms b,
Also, remember that filing means NOTHING. My W filed, we went through the waiting period, we divided the stuff, we finalized, and only then did things start to change.

Let him do what he wants. My guess is that once he sees how much child support he'll have to pay you each month, the tune will change...

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK