Glad your H is checking on you! I hope he comes back to see you when you are there... I do think that you should try to get him to interact with you on an outing- And maybe even consider something totally different so there is no previous history. Not sure what that would be in your case, but I think my H gets nervous going into familiar sitch with people who know us...
I hope your new job comes through. I was just thinking tonight that if my life goes according to my previous plan (will stay M) then I will be following my H to wherever life takes him after he finishes school. Kind of scary- but I'd go anywhere for good M. Is your H still in the area?
Anyway, hopefully he wants to bump up his personal time with you...
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!