And Mike it isn't that I am focusing on what H will lose (his farm), I am just seeing that from a birds-eye view I don't see any winners emerging from this...
If I implied you were that is not what I meant..I meant it's his choice..This is clearly his decision..he must live with it..
I'll say this BBj..well It would not be proper for me to spell it out here. I will contact you via Alternate universe.
Please let us know as soon as you get the rest of the results. I understand the remorse about calling H. When I thought I was having a heartattack in the spring and drove myself to the hospital I wasn't going to call H. I was shocked when he showed up there. No matter how big of DAMs they are, there is part of them that will always care, just not the part we want to care.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
I told him about my test results. He kept asking if needing more testing was good or bad. I said I didn't particularly see how it could be good, but I wasn't going to make any judgements without all the information.........
Although I haven't posted to you much, I have followed your sitch and am very sorry to hear about what has happened. I am praying for you and your kids and I hope your H comes to his senses before it is too late.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
