BBJ, I am very sorry about the turn of events. I know the feeling ... the feeling that you are the only one who tried...the feeling that OP may be still around...the feeling that your spouse is hurting not only you but the children. I wish I had something to add that would pick up your spirits right now... What I told myself is that anyone who would hurt my daughter like this does not deserve my love... Anyone who can lie to me and betray me like this does not deserve my friendship... I know it has been said before but this is the time where you need support and this is the time were you need to be there for your kids. I hope you are able to find the strength to be there for them and at the same time take care of yourself. Don't be afraid to ask for help.
