After some thought, my gut is telling me to GAL anyway, since it hinges on so many other parts of the list, ie acting as if, detaching, being confident, etc. Essentially I have to ignore HIS motivations for having me go out. Anyone agree?

I actually think WDID's second reason may be true also, since H had complained that I didn't go out as much as we used to before the kids.

Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
Too many bombs to count:(