I am one who wants to wear shorts at Christmas!!! Well it could snow on Christmas, but I want it to go back to 80 degrees the next day! Keeping you in my thoughts.
I'll trade places anyday. At least for a day. Thanks for keeping me in your thoughts. Wierd day yesterday. H using more we etc... I don't know what to think. I keep hoping we are getting closer to the end of this MLC. He asked me to go get pizza with him yesterday instead of just calling and ordering it and going to pick it up. We had a nice time while waiting for the pizza to cook. The only thing we have done together since all of this last bomb was S stuff. You give me such great strength MT. I dont' know if I could do what you are doing with the sharing of H. I don't think I would want it right out in the open like that. Oh well. Hopefully that is one path I will never have to walk. This one is hard enough. Smile. It is another beautiful cold day here in sunny FL.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
That is great you got to get pizza. You seem to be coming out of the other side! That is so exciting for you. Oh I don't know if I am that good. I am not feeling very good today. Just feeling pissy I guess! Not sure why some days bother me more than others, but I know that is pretty normal. I am glad that I know it is going on. I wish I could say, you need to pick one of us, but I guess I am not to that point yet. H has told OW he is staying with me until after Christmas. I have a friend who says my new years resolution should be to boot him out if he hasn't figured it out by then, but I know I won't cross that bridge until I come to it. There are many days I want to say, just get the F out! But I bite my tongue and go on.
That's great about the pizza. Isn't it wonderful when you can see little measurable improvements?
What part of Florida are you in? Are you by the beach? I would love that! I am kind of a sand and sunshine girl, unfortunately I was born in Michigan lol! We have blue skies and cool today. I'd say 50. They don't turn the heat on in our office building for another 3 weeks yet. So we are all freezing. These big old stone buildings are soooo cold and drafty. My feet are frozen and Ihave a quilt on my lap under my desk.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
oh my gosh, that sounds very cold. I am like that at home. I don't like to turn the heat on until Nov 1st. It is supposed to get into the 30's this week. Is that a 180 to turn on the heat before Nov 1st! LOL.
Usually I will let H be the one to decide to turn the heat on. But then he is usually there at night to help keep me warm. Since the MLC he is as often as not sleeping on the couch. And he isn't into hugs or kisses or snuggling.
I am just cold. Probably from lack of affection as much as the weather.
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Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
The office buildings are another matter. This building is "one lined" (they say) so that either the air conditioning or the heat is on. Not both. They have stuff that they have to do to shut one off and turn the other on. A process. And it takes them a couple of days I guess.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
North of Tampa, 6 miles from Gulf coast. Beaches over here aren't as nice as the ones on the Atlantic side. I actually don't get there as much as I want to. H isn't really a beach sort of guy.
Yes, I miss the hugs, kisses, snuggling, hand holding, sitting close on the couch. I wonder if they know how much we miss that stuff.
MT-not so coming out on the other side yet. Maybe showing a little peek but that is about it. Which I actually expected after last night. But keeping my PMA and just breathing through the RCI.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
My H is not much of a beach guy either. I guess I don't know many guys that are, lol.
I think my H knows how much I miss the affection, I just don't think he is capable of thinking about anyone but himself right now.
In the face of that it is a struggle to keep up the PMA. I'm really working on it. I'm breathing. Not so sure about H. Not sure a whole lot is possible with the RCI.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
