Yes it is a difficult decision. We have to decide when we "drop the rope" and if we want to move on.
It is a love/hate. I think T2L was correct in saying that after 6 months the love can be turned to hate. of course in the DB book it says that especially with a MLC that it might take a lot longer for them to come out of the fog. This week my H is totally in the fog. I know he has been with OW the whole weekend doing the football/drinking thing and I know he must be out with her also. Either H will become totally wrapped and addicted to her or the passion will die. I can only hope for the later.
You will know when you make up your mind. How are the kids taking it these days? Does H make an effort to see them on a regular basis. It really is such a sad that all of this happened. I missed all of the signs.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
