Snow,

Just so you know, there are many here who support standers and I do understand the pain you are going through.

Maybe being a little less defensive in your answers may help to make you a little more approachable so that more people can feel free to post to you.

Sending hugs and prayers.

((((((((hugs))))))))
BND

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.