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I dont know either
What do you want,, What would work best for you?
Will negotiating again help your situation?
You know what you want and you have negotiated already, so maybe you can have all the recent agreements on hand
If H wants to talk you into accepting less, then it will be a waste of time
I think go with your gut feeling
If your H really wants to negotiate, He can set aside a suitiable time for you
I think our H gets very scared at pay up time
Mine filed and stalled b/c he doesnt want to deal with the mess of it all and see all his loses
At this point, I decided to call the L to proceed
I am not very concerned about how much H loses
that is his choice..maybe they need to sweat a littleand
see all the damage that was created by their choices and if they feel it anywhere the pain and loss maybe it is here in their wallet
just my thoughts
you take a little quiet time to decide what you need to do
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow