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Babygirl #1623128 10/17/08 04:15 PM
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Are you still taking D11 to the movies? It stopped raining just a little bit ago and the sun is out, so hopefully a wonderful night for you and your daughter. Have fun!

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D11 and I did make it to the movies last night. Picked her up a Halloween costume that she was wanting. Went to mall for a little while and got some other stuff. Had a good dinner. I spent more money then I intended to but it was a fun night out. Pretty rare since I usually only have her during the week.

It did turn out to be nice day when the sun came out. We had a little bit of hail up here in the morning. I am hoping this weekend stays fairly decent.


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yenko69 #1623809 10/18/08 02:52 PM
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Glad you had a good time. Creating a special evening with the kids is so cool and I think they will remember the special night too.

So what happened that was so crazy the rest of the week?

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kat727 #1625552 10/20/08 11:22 PM
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I want to go see "Eagle Eye". Have you seen it? I heard it was pretty good.

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On Monday I was over at the house all day, working in town. The girls were home from school and W was still sick. We talked some off and on all day, but she slept through most of it. She did ask me during the day if I would stay the night there. She just threw weird comments out all day like that. I took a nap in the afternoon in D11's bed and w said that I could have slept with her, it would not have bothered her and that it was half my bed. I went to the city meeting and came back and helped her sort out some things. We quit when it got late and asked me again if I would stay, I could have the bed and she would sleep on the couch. I declined the offer.

The next morning we finished sorting out some things and she was even sicker. I ended up taking her to the doctor. On the way there she said that we were being followed to town by OM, he had already turned off or I would have stopped. She said that she had never been stalked like this before and he was a jerk. That she knows it is her fault.

Nothing much the next couple days. On Friday she came by and picked me up. We went to breakfast. She kept coming up with talks of the future together. Then went to the bank and she added me to her checking account. She was worried when she got so sick that their would not be anyone able to access her account if something happened to her. Then she offered to let me use her car to take D11 to Topeka.

This weekend was spent cleaning out the garage. She got real emotional about some of the cards, ect. More future together comments from her. I took her and the girls out for dinner on Saturday night. Yesterday she was into hugging. She referenced a conversation that she called the OM a psycho. She did say ILY a few times throughout the day and night. More I am sorry for the emotional roller coaster she had put me on. She did go to IC on Saturday.

She called this morning when she was at the gas station and wanted to know if I could meet her. I was to far out in the county by then. She may call later, see what her mood of the day is.

That is just the highlights. The ILY and all of her emotions were real. Although, I am just waiting for her to go back the other way. I am not really worried about it either way. See what happens from here.


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yenko69 #1625604 10/21/08 12:35 AM
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Yenko

I will have to catch up in the next couple days but things do sound on the upswing for you. Great to hear. And I like the attitude you have.

Reading sitches like yours helps me survive for sure.

Stay cool.


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Maybe she is making some progress. When do you get to see the C again so you can gauge the situation? It does sound like she is making comments to see how you respond.

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Yenko, haven't read your sitch yet; but saw your post on BG in newcomer's.

Are you a fellow guardsman?


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I don't see the C again until the 31st. Not sure about her next appointment.

I just got off phone with her. Talked for about 45min. Nothing serious, a little light convo about the R. I threw out a couple feelers and had a positive response. She did have that one voice when she said goodnight and sweet dreams. I have not heard that tone in a long time. Doesn't really raise a big hope flag for me.

MC, I am in the Air National Guard. It is not to bad. Not really exciting, but it is the Air Force. What branch are you in?


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I'm ANG too.


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