H4H, I have been meaning to ask you if you think the age difference between you and your wife played a major factor in all this? My wife and I are about 12 years different and I see/feel the difference in what we like to do, our tastes in things etc. Also what is the age of the OM?
I've often wondered the same thing about me and my W. But I think there's a lot more to it than that. I know a couple that has 18 years between them and they have one of the most stable R around. Both active in the church and have great kids. His 2nd M however, her first.
