I forgot to mention that after seeing his myspace profile last night I texted him 'Thank you so much again. Thank goodness I still have the TBT CD to open the file. Well Goodnight. P.S. I always told you tequila was bad for you, makes you angry. ' I did not expect any response, I just felt that he needed to know that I saw the pics. Like kinda saying that I care without saying it and adding pressure, does that make sense?
No 2x4 here Sep. I think it is fine that you texted and mentioned the photo.
I was just about to post this morning and say almost the same thing. Lol.
I was also going to ask you what your next move was? Awhile ago you had discussed inviting him to a fair with you but then you guys broke contact and you went dark for quite some time and did not invite him on an outing. What do you think about the idea now? I just think that since you guys are having positive interactions that it might be the time to go out and "date" a little to see how things go. How would you feel about being the one to get the ball rolling?
I'm still nervous but I think I might throw something out there. Shockingly I thought after sending that text last night I thought I wouldn't hear from him for awhile but about an hour ago I got a text 'Just left IKEA, I didn't see you' I responded 'That's because I'm off today, lol' and he just wrote, 'Of course'. I then just text him that I'm there at the end of the week.
I thought that it was pretty cute that he went there looking for me.
I think the interview went well, it was a call back so I am top 3 in their list of candidates. So hopefully all goes well!!
It is very cute that he went looking for you! It will be interesting to see if he shows up on a different day now that he knows when you will be there.
So let's brain storm here. . .what kind/s of things would you invite hubby to do?
I am considering telling him about this Art/Music/Fashion Fair that I am going to on Sunday. H and I always shared a love of the arts and would do these types of things. My friend is in the Fashion Show and I also wanted to check out the other aspects of the fair so I think I will let him know about it and see if he would like to join me.
I know that's why I threw out there when I would be there so that he knows which days. But no expectations!!!
Glad your H is checking on you! I hope he comes back to see you when you are there... I do think that you should try to get him to interact with you on an outing- And maybe even consider something totally different so there is no previous history. Not sure what that would be in your case, but I think my H gets nervous going into familiar sitch with people who know us...
I hope your new job comes through. I was just thinking tonight that if my life goes according to my previous plan (will stay M) then I will be following my H to wherever life takes him after he finishes school. Kind of scary- but I'd go anywhere for good M. Is your H still in the area?
Anyway, hopefully he wants to bump up his personal time with you...
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
Also just wondering if you ever got that book and if so what you think so far?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
OP - H is a few towns away but still in the local area. I only figured something like this since he was upset that he missed the last one that I went to. I really don't know what would be different for us...lol. I know exactly what you mean by going anywhere for a good M!!!
ITH - I thought it was cute too especially since I thought I wouldn't hear from him for a little while since I made a comment about is pics. It was quite weird I was suppose to receive the books on Fri but I was called into work, when I got home I didn't even have the UPS tag so I tracked it online and they were holding it because the apt # wasn't on the package. Now it will be re-delivered today and I will be home!!! I know I can't wait!! I got that book and also 'Law of Attraction: The Teaching of Abraham'.
I had a dream last night that I woke up and H was there in the bed with me. It was so life like and I have been having these dreams alot latley. I hope they are some sign!! LoL. In the dream I even asked H if it was a dream, and he told me no. Unfortunatly I woke up and it was but it was so life like that I even looked around to see if he was really there!! What a dork I am!!!
' I did not expect any response, I just felt that he needed to know that I saw the pics. Like kinda saying that I care without saying it and adding pressure, does that make sense?