I agree about not adding any debt. Especially with the economy. It sounds like your H is still in the early stages of all of this. Up and down. I'm hoping mine is sort of coming to the end of it. Guess what, I looked up his natal chart, something I haven't done before cuz I haven't wanted to know too much, and it indicates he will have a MLC for the very reasons he has told me. I almost choked on my gum LOL.

Don't worry about your talk not affecting him. It does. He heard you. Just not ready to process it yet. My H looked at me for the first time in I don't know how long last week and couldn't believe how much weight I've lost which tells me that he hasn't looked at me in a long time. Because it has taken over a year.

Just keep smiling.

If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.