The nice me would tell him that you spent three hours previously, nothing was accomplished, you are busy but if he wants to take off work, you would be glad to meet him. That puts the ball in his court. If he does not want to take off work, you will not have to worry about meeting.

The mean me would say, "If you do not have the money for mediation, you sure cannot afford to divorce me." \:\)

M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11