I hate to sound cold and callus but document it. Ex doesn't call on the nights he doesn't have them. I could see not talking to them maybe one night but I would be calling everynight. I just don't see this as the same guy that couldn't even order dinner with out talking to s16 when s16 was like 2 first.
They can't see it either I guess. just not a priority in lala land.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory