I'm sorry you are so close to the end here--that must be very stressful.

Can't hurt to talk, really. But if he wants to talk so badly, he needs to make the time to do it. Have him do it on your terms.

I think I would straight up say that you feel like it is a waste of time if he's just going to change things again.

Also, if you don't like the way it's going, stop negotiating.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D