great work, Limbo! I know it seems like forever that you've been working on making things right... but it took a long time for the marriage to get to the bad place, it won't be truly fixed overnight. Quick fixes never cut it. That's the honeymoon stuff when you slide back into complacency. That doesn't mean, though, that you won't ever be able to be secure and let the walls down!
The book Dr. Love artfully refers to is a great piecing tool that works with the DB principles.
