So along with the sudden interest in hschooling stuff which he hasn't had the past 8 years of course, he also told the kids again this weekend he was going to call them tonight around 6. This is the 3rd time he's told them he's going to call them and then doesn't. I think the other times he made it maybe one or even 2 nights, and then stopped calling (said he would call the nights he wasn't seeing them).
But tonight he didn't even make the call for one night! I'm ashamed to admit I even reminded him in an email. (He had emailed me about paying the house insurance and I said I would and asked him if he was going to call at 6.) He still didn't. It amazes me that even when his L is telling him what to do to be a "good" parent H can't do it. He sucks!!! I just hate that this hurts the kids you know being told something by him and then he doesn't. I guess they have learned not to trust his word or depend on him, but it makes me sad... and also embarrassed that I married someone like that! Karen