Could you elaborate on the balance of power? That is an interesting statement. I've kind been coming to a conclusion or formulating a sort hypothesis that the person who cares the least about the relationship is the one who wields the power. Seems like sort of a bummer. Also, I am sort of not digging the idea of having "power" in a relationship. Pre-bomb, I never thought of having more or less power. More like we were a team and because were believed in each other, that was OUR power. Oh well, so much for my sugar plum and fairies view of the world.


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted