Another one bites the dust (2)

[No Longer BH]

Got this email from my STBXH today and it made me really sad.It shouldnt, I should be past these feelings but I'm not:

Brokenhearted,

I hope you had a great weekend. I really think it was a great thing to take son to the Obama rally and have been sharing with everyone that you did. I still smile thinking about it.

I would like to start the talking about putting together the information necessary to have our documents drawn up. I see it as 3 areas that we need to go through:

1. Personal property

2. Parenting arrangements

3. Money arrangements

My impression is the item of most concern to you, and the one with the least discussion between us, is the last. If you like, we can talk about that first. What I am hoping we can do is have a very open and honest talk about goals, hopes, requirements, understandings, timeframes, etc.

How would you like to begin?

I hope you are having a great day.


I know that getting a D really is not going to change my sitch at all. We are living apart, he has already moved on to OW, and we are each doing our own things at this point. I really dont have any good feelings left for him anymore, butit is the fear of the unknownthat makes it so hard. It is the anger that he left me and is doing this while I am fighting CANCER that makes it hard to face. I really hope that one day he feels awful about this and that maggot leaves him. I know, very negative energy I am putting outintothe universe. Just not feeling very positive at the moment. Any suggestions on how I should reply? I am not sending anything tonight, I will wait until tomorrow.