Nope. Basically, her aunt was telling me that the wife is a lost cause. Not to "act" like I've moved on, but to "boogie on down the road" move on.
Apparantly, she believes that my wife has turned out to be just like her mother, as much as the wife never wanted to admit it and always denied it. The aunt has been through a lot with her husband, too. I think she regrets taking him back after numerous flings on his part. They actually divorced because of his indiscretions. They got back together many years ago.
I think what she is telling me is that it's not worth it. Not with the wife's family history.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."