BBJ -
Your son, Kalni's son and my son all seem like such perceptive, sensitive and hoping little boys. It just tore my heart apart to tell him the first time that his mom was most likely not coming back. I really worry about your son being told a second time that his family is breaking up. I cant see how your H is going to handle doing this with you - he is such a chicken sh!t right now.

I think it is what she did to our kids family life that is really making my W feel terrible right now.