My H has made mention of that too, why do I not want to do anything? At the first of this I was looking up information on depression and was excited because I had found the cause of everything! I figured that would solve all of our troubles!! NOT. He never said I don't think I am depressed, but he isn't going to go the doctor for something mental! My H is very aware there is something that is not right with him, but just can't fix it.
I love the response to your H on the curfew. Sometimes my H is coming home at he same time his D is, makes me laugh; a few times they have pulled in the driveway right behind each other!