I'm quite interested in the outcome. I am probably in your husbands situation, but I know there is a problem and has been but I don't have good connection with my feelings to express what I need to be able to have the connection hence the HD that my DH does. And I'm hoping that it's as everyone has said, the lack of connection with me, and his anger and resentment for not being so sexually open that has caused his lack of desire for me much as you have with your H.
I truly hope both you find a way back to each other so it give me hope.
Jen Me 32 H 35 Married 8yrs 3/11/2000 - Together 10 yrs No Children
1st Bomb - 7/1999 2nd Bomb - 8/2004 3rd A - 10/2006 4th A & Bomb - 10/12/08
Done sweeping things under the rug, I need to start doing something...But what?