Well he responded with he wants me and only me, and wants to stay and work on the marriage. So its a start, he also said that he wants us to start dialoguing tonight, so thats good if we stick to it. So I will work with this and not expect to much, and hopefully with him going to C tomorrow it will help. I do plan on asking him to make sure that he is honest with his C as otherwise it wount help, and also it will take more then a few sessions make him better. I am not going to put it as an ultimatum, but more that if this is real then he has to do whatever it takes to make it stick!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
