Beej, I truly don't think that the wife would consider going to the movies with me at this point. I've heard good things about the movie. I can pray that something compells her to go see it. I'm trying to be dark with her, right? It may not even be me being dark. More like a lack of empathy about it now.

As for me, I don't think I want to make things harder for me than they already are. It's taken me some time to come to grips with what she wants. I have to accept it. For my own sanity, you know.

Karen, good metaphor. Closing the door but just not locking it. A door that can always be re-opened. That is how I've been feeling.

IF I decide to. Your right about that. Closing the door, perhaps hoping that another opens. And who knows. It just might be the wife behind that new door. SOUNDS good, doesn't it?

And your not nutty. Just a goober like me \:\)

Wait! Isn't a goober another name for a nut?

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."