Jak and Matilda, The R continues to spiral upward. It seems to be a matter of creating enough positives to maintain connection. Connection is the key to creating an atmosphere for intimacy to occur. I notice that the more connected I feel, the more intimate I want to be with my W.
She seems to be struggling with some minor depression, health issue, or menopause (fatigue, lack of initiative, disrupted sleep schedule). I've decided that I'm not going to cut back on my dance activity, because she is lethargic. Often, when I make a commitment to go out for the evening, she decides to go, and has a great time.
I went by myself to a ballroom dance, which she didn't want to go to, and had a great time, as it forced me to ask ladies to dance, and expand my network. My W was later sorry that she didn't go.
We are getting more skilled at managing the puppy. The puppy has provided opportunity for being social and connecting with family (puppy classes, and visit to her sister's).
The puppy has lifted my spirits also. It provides me with companionship, beyond what my W can offer. Even taking him outside to go potty, allows me to get out of the house and enjoy the outdoors. I take him with me on errands, and spend my free time with him. I'm looking forward to taking him on walks around the neighborhood.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
