Yeah, tell me about it... Bbj, what can i say? I had this punching on the walls before, 3 months before the bomb. My stbxH stopped that after I told him I would kick him out if he was to do it in front of the kids again... But he knew he was upset for other reasons and managed to control these outbursts very soon.
What bothers me is that you end up justifying your self and being defensive all the time. How long do you think you could keep this up? What is it that you havent used with Dan? In Retro, did you miss anything? I mean, forgot. Is he one of those macho guys that never admit they are wrong?
I dont know. I admire you for how you stand. And you have a smaller shoulder here too. Always. K
