TOH,

I don't get it, either. You guys are still doing so much together (bb guns, bow practice, general hanging out-- even though you passed on the b-day party) that doesn't involve working on the farm. Maybe you need to absent yourself from those social activities for a while? Just to see what happens.

I can't believe he's unfazed by your I-hate-yous.

Hang in there. Don't let him make you bitter.