They sadly can go away or as in my case they are locked up in a huge book that contains the last 21 years of our life together. Too painful to look at right now and made it so much easier to deal with how I want and need to make my life.

I couldn't continue to be stuck. I had to drop the rope(I actually threw it as far as I could) just so I could get on with living. You need to decide how you can deal with it. We each do. Best wishes for you.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory