I'm sorry it happened this way, BBJ. You deserve so much better. The way he talked to you last night was abuse. And he did it in front of the kids. For a while now I've been thinking that the wrong person was muttering "I can't take this anymore." Bad mantra. But you are much more entitled to it than he is. I agree with Mike. Either OW is back or he has started medicating his problems with another OW.