Pull yourself together ITH you can do this!! I know it's hard...Ohhhh trust me. You don't know how bad I want to tell H that we can do this and I want more than anything for our marriage to work. But I think about it and realize that by scaring him off that I will not reach my goal. You can try that tonight think everything you are going to say thru and ask yourself, 'If I say this will it bring me closer or farther from my goal'. That is what has helped me not to slip. Good Luck!!
We are here sending good vibes and wishing you a good conversation tonight.